Yay! You get to conduct a GRAND EXPERIMENT! 🙂
He is looking at himself through what he perceives to be your eyes and weighing himself as lacking.
Your objective must be to emPOWER Him so that he sees that he is actually your EQUAL and that that means he is amazing and worthy of profound respect!
Here’s how to proceed:
First and foremost, Be True to YOU. Respect your self wholly and completely, aligning all your thoughts, feelings and actions towards honoring the truest and deepest *YOU*.
Then, while leaving some of your awareness upon overseeing your continual good feelings about your Self…
Look beneath his self-conscious stammering and clumsiness and SEE the Actual, Precious Being WithIN.
All date long, interact with THAT Being! Talk with, hold hands with, laugh with… HIM!
Shower out from your eyes and heart validation of HIM.
It will not be long before he relaxes and shakes himself from his self-imposed judgments and becomes Real.
He will LOVE how he sees himself from behind your eyes. He will gradually clarify and conform his vision accordingly.
[Watch out…! You will also need to learn how to “shield” your self because most men are STARVING for this type of “food.” You will become a magnet of attraction for men. Learn how to listen deep within your self for guidance. You may need to be completely frank and forthright with some men who try to GRAB your light. But… never stop shining!.]
One of my favorite quotes:
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength.
Loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tse
Enjoy your experience in strengthening him.
In my pursuit of Real Truth, I have given up everything. Crawling through the “eye of the needle,” I have learned the *mysteries* and am now giving my life to assist YOU to dis-cover Who *YOU* really are, along with your unique gift to offer humanity. As you learn to seek (in the right place and with purified intent), you WILL find treasures of lasting value, along with every promised reward. Together, we will establish a society of humane beings and live life ALIVE, on PURPOSE, and with a sociality unequaled… because we will each BE and view each other as equally and profoundly DIVINE! Please… catch this Hope and Vision and join with me.