Think about the biology of wearing pants.
Doesn’t it make more sense for females to wear pants and for males (with their dangling appendages) to wear something more loose over their privates or lower half?
To “wear pants” in a relationship indicates that that individual has the balls. To wear the pants and have balls is to have the courage to do something.
Person 1: So did you get her number man?
Person 2: No… It’s cuz…
Person 1: No freakin excuses man… You’re a wimp! You don’t even have the balls…
The balls/ testicles are housed in the scrotum just behind the penis on a male. The testicles are the male gonads… the primary male reproductive organs. They have two essential functions to the male reproductive system: the balls/ testicles 1) produce sperm and 2) secrete hormones, primarily testosterone. As far as current understanding goes, sperm and testosterone are necessary to the propagating and maintaining of life. (More on this subject later.)
Yet, often… now hear this with an open mind… often females have far more “balls” than males. When one senses this, they may remark “Wow, you can sure tell who wears the pants in THIS family!”
It is often of no notice when a male exerts excessive self- confidence or control over a female. When a woman exudes confidence and attempts to guide her husband, that is when the phrase is whipped out: “She is the one who wears the pants in THAT relationship!”
Throughout much of recorded history, females were required to conceal and even repress their courage. Because of our strong compassionate natures, it has been easy for us to subject our inner knowing to the more-liable-to-being-corrupted perspective and demands of the men in our lives, particularly our husbands. At those times when women have utilized their intelligence in ways that have appeared to contradict those who wanted to maintain control, “witch hunts,” physical/ emotional/ and or sexual mis-use and abuse have often ensued.
And the children have cried.
Today, womenkind are no longer as likely to surrender their actual identity to a man. Many are realizing their proper role as nurturers of the upcoming generation (their own progeny as well as all the children and weak of the world). With their place in the workforce, their ability to vote, and their increased allowance to express their opinions, thinking (with their pure hearts) for them selves, women are taking upon themselves a hither-to hidden inner power.
Finding their inherent confidence and courage, women are speaking up and beginning to set aright the world, making it safe for our children.
Yet, as in all learning curves, generations of suppressed anger and resentment have compelled some women to attempt to adopt subversive male attributes of anger, revenge, and “force,” even adopting the attire of suits as an additional attempt to portray their control over situations and others. Others are falling to the level of using their bodies as seductive objects in unconscious attempts to gain their power over men in that way.
Yet, in this way, women have been perverting their own sacred natures.
So, to get directly to the question at hand of there being a “negative” stigma to “wearing pants in a relationship,” I would go deeper and expose the roots of the principle.
A woman MUST “wear the pants” (figuratively). Our global society is counting upon the females to find their pure and sacred voice! It is time for womankind to put their sincere intention and attention upon making this world safe for the upcoming generations who instinctively look to females to fulfill that role.
As a woman truly steps into her unadulterated power, she will radiate out from within the depths of her being a light, a confidence, that will inspire all those around her. Yes, she may offend those who seek to see women remain “in their place.” Yes, she may face condemnation. But a Real Woman can not be thwarted from living the life she was born to live, contributing to society her precious and unique offering.
As more women “wear the pants,” the stigma will “get rid of” itself.
Men will find their True “helpmeets,” sincerely applying her guidance to generate a True inner strength that will bring them joy and positively contribute to humanity.
Children will be raised to feel happy and secure.
The world will see war no more.
May we each rise to the occasion of our future destiny… females and males alike.
There is so much riding on the powers being righted.
In my pursuit of Real Truth, I have given up everything. Crawling through the “eye of the needle,” I have learned the *mysteries* and am now giving my life to assist YOU to dis-cover Who *YOU* really are, along with your unique gift to offer humanity. As you learn to seek (in the right place and with purified intent), you WILL find treasures of lasting value, along with every promised reward. Together, we will establish a society of humane beings and live life ALIVE, on PURPOSE, and with a sociality unequaled… because we will each BE and view each other as equally and profoundly DIVINE! Please… catch this Hope and Vision and join with me.